You see her across a crowded room, her eyes meet yours and the attraction is immediate and reciprocal. You are not aware of how you know this, you just do.
He walks into your office and when you look up, you stop breathing and he stops blinking. The two of you resume breathing and blinking at the same time.
You are being naughty and gently kissing every bridesmaid when, with no warning, one of the kisses lights up your soul, and hers. Her eyes are as wide as yours as the kiss ends.
She walks up to your table and asks what you would like to drink and when you look up into her face, you lose the power of speech. As she walks back to the kitchen to get the iced tea that you finally managed to order with your barely working mouth, she looks back to see if you are watching her. You are.
What makes these scenes happen? Is it pheromones? Is it an energy or aura that surrounds us and attracts us to like energies or auras? Or to opposite ones? Is it just the way the other person is put together, the curve of their jaw, the brightness of their eyes or the shape of their face? I firmly believe that no one knows!
For me, I am fairly certain that it is NOT looks. Like everyone else, these things have happened to me and the women involved did not look alike.
Pheromones? Well, maybe. There are people hawking pheromones all over the internet right now and they claim that the darn things work. But can pheromones cross a crowded room, get blended with every one else’s pheromones, reach your nostrils and instruct your brain to look across the room at her at the exact same time YOUR pheromones are telling her to look at you? I guess stranger things have happened but it seems like a long shot to me.
I have to go with auras/energies. I think we all have one, an aura, that is composed of OUR energy that has a specific charge signature. And our charge is attracted to another specific energy signature generated by other people. And when two compatible auras touch, the connection to both parties is immediate and, somewhere in the deep recesses of our barely understood brains, a synapse fires that forces us, totally unconsciously, to react, to look. I know, I sound like Geordi LaForge. But how often have we all commented about meeting someone for the first time that “it was just electric!”
In the end, though, I guess it doesn’t matter how it happens, only that it does. To all of us. And it sure is fun!! Isn’t it?
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